small reminders

it's okay to not be okay care very little about what others have to say about you remember that it doesn't matter if your story so far has been less than desirable your past mistakes don't make the sum total of who you are you're not a bad person for expressing your discomfort you're allowed…

The importance of friendship

Some of my best friends ..my loves who saved my life .. I remember sitting on a bench at the Bournemouth Pier about 7 years ago. I remember the cold crisp air and the sound of the waves hitting the pier. I was so cold and I was waiting for someone to answer my call.…

Crisps in bras and wonky glasses

I love watching romantic comedies and period dramas especially when life gets a bit cruddy. My go-to guilty pleasures are endless but to name a few - Breakfast at Tiffany's, Pride and Prejudice (the original BBC mini-series), You've got Mail, Sleepless in Seattle, Love Story (love means never having to say you're sorry..such a corny…